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| + | Authors: Jake Gustafson (Poikilos) and Robert Kiraly (OldCoder)\\ | ||
| + | License: CC BY-NC-ND 4.0 International | ||
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| This is the first page, Introduction. | This is the first page, Introduction. | ||
| For the next page, Foreword, [[foreword|click here.]] | For the next page, Foreword, [[foreword|click here.]] | ||
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| - | 01.0) [[start|Introduction]]\\ | + | 01.0) [[start#start-top|Introduction]]\\ |
| 02.0) [[foreword|Foreword]]\\ | 02.0) [[foreword|Foreword]]\\ | ||
| 03.0) [[family|Family Background]]\\ | 03.0) [[family|Family Background]]\\ | ||
| 03.1) [[tfw|The Fourth Way]]\\ | 03.1) [[tfw|The Fourth Way]]\\ | ||
| + | 03.2) [[childhood|Jake' | ||
| - | 04.0) [[early_ray|Early Ray]] | + | 04.0) [[ray|Ray of Sunshine]]\\ |
| + | 04.1) [[early_ray|Early Ray]]\\ | ||
| + | 04.2) [[ray_tracing|Ray Tracing]] | ||
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| - | 07.0) [[chameleon|Chameleon Aconitum]] | + | 07.0) [[chameleon|Chameleon Aconitum]]\\ |
| + | 07.1) [[chameleon_early|Early Chameleon]] \\ | ||
| + | 07.2) [[chameleon_me|Chameleon and Me]]\\ | ||
| + | 07.3) [[chameleon_tfc|Return of the Chameleon]] | ||
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| 11) [[manipulators|Recognize Manipulators]]\\ | 11) [[manipulators|Recognize Manipulators]]\\ | ||
| - | 12) [[leave_toxic|Leave Toxic Relationships]]\\ | + | 12) [[so_relationships|SO Relationships]]\\ |
| 13) [[speak_up|It' | 13) [[speak_up|It' | ||
| 14) [[house_church|Focus on the House Church]]\\ | 14) [[house_church|Focus on the House Church]]\\ | ||
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| A) [[kjv_only|KJV-Only Churches]]\\ | A) [[kjv_only|KJV-Only Churches]]\\ | ||
| + | B) [[site_reflections|Ethical Concerns Q&A]]\\ | ||
| **ABOUT THIS SITE** | **ABOUT THIS SITE** | ||
| - | B) [[site_notices|Site Notices]]\\ | + | C) [[site_notices|Site Notices]]\\ |
| - | C) [[editor_notes|Site Technical | + | D) [[wikitech|Wiki Tech Notes]] |
| Contact information, | Contact information, | ||
| </ | </ | ||
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| - | **WHAT IS THIS BOOK?** | + | {{anchor: |
| This is a personal story intended for U.S. readers. Especially current and former church-goers and people in problem | This is a personal story intended for U.S. readers. Especially current and former church-goers and people in problem | ||
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| Jake Gustafson is a reserved software developer in his 30s. He's committed to the com(shy)mun(shy)ity and faith that have been the cornerstones of his life since child(shy)hood. | Jake Gustafson is a reserved software developer in his 30s. He's committed to the com(shy)mun(shy)ity and faith that have been the cornerstones of his life since child(shy)hood. | ||
| - | Ray Gustafson is a charismatic | + | Ray Gustafson is a massage artist and drug user in his 40s. |
| - | He's a former Christian leader who positions himself | + | He's a former Christian leader who posi(shy)tions him(shy)self |
| - | guru and, at the same time, seems to boast of bedding women who are | + | Ex-Christian guru and, at the same time, seems to boast of |
| - | as young as he's able to get. | + | bedding women who are as young as he's able to get. |
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| + | Ray has been been arrested and prose(shy)cuted for mul(shy)tiple drug | ||
| + | and/or alcohol offenses. His future is bleak. It's safe to | ||
| + | say that his life hasn't turn(shy)ed out as well as he might have | ||
| + | hoped. | ||
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| The two men are conflicted. | The two men are conflicted. | ||
| - | Jake retains his faith, but he's in the process | + | Jake retains his faith, but he's in the pro(shy)cess |
| - | boundaries | + | bound(shy)aries |
| - | Ray has explicitly rejected Christianity, | + | Ray has explicitly rejected Christianity, |
| + | waver on this posi(shy)tion. He's said to have tried to intro(shy)duce | ||
| + | the Bible to the local drug culture. | ||
| </ | </ | ||
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| - | The key figures also include Chameleon, a manipulative | + | The key figures also include Chameleon, a mani(shy)pula(shy)tive |
| + | and corro(shy)sive woman that both men have had as a lover. She | ||
| + | doesn' | ||
| - | Chameleon was into BDSM and hard drugs and once did a threesome | + | Chameleon was into BDSM and hard drugs and once did a three(shy)some |
| + | involving two gay men. | ||
| + | **//" | ||
| + | She asked Jake, on occasion, to watch her kids so that she | ||
| + | could engage in pro(shy)sti(shy)tu(shy)tion. | ||
| Chameleon arguably wasn't the best match for a Funda(shy)mental(shy)ist man, let alone for two Funda(shy)mental(shy)ist brothers. | Chameleon arguably wasn't the best match for a Funda(shy)mental(shy)ist man, let alone for two Funda(shy)mental(shy)ist brothers. | ||
| - | This site will go into signs of relationships that aren't on a rock-solid basis. | + | This site will go into signs of relationships that aren't |
| + | on a rock-solid basis. | ||
| </ | </ | ||
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| - | This book is Jake's look at his life, Ray's life, and different perspectives | + | This book is Jake's look at his life, Ray's life, and |
| + | differ(shy)ent per(shy)spec(shy)tives | ||
| + | the people involved | ||
| + | the public in general | ||
| </ | </ | ||